If you want an over the top, deep south grandeur experience then go to the Greenbrier. You will be treated like royalty regardless. They especially cater to children and literally bend over backwards to fulfill your every request, even on short notice. Just keep in mind that this is 'your wealthy old grandmother's decor', think lots of flowers and vintagey styles. They are not on a time frame so things are a far slower pace. Make sure to schedule in enough time to participate in all the activities the Greenbrier offers - tennis clinics, swimming (2 pools), golf, casino, actually very nice shopping, spa services, salon and several dining options. There is also hiking, kayakying, equestrian activities and cultural/historical tours. You will NOT be bored and your children will be completely entertained from kids club, to bowling, a movie theater, it is mind blowing. Worth every expensive penny. You won't regret it. Truly lives up to all the hype it receives.